You don’t know if you are really being abused.
It’s all in your head. People say you are. You match the signs you read online. Nothing else is going well in your life.
It must be your partners fault.
You feel like shit physically/emotionally. Expectations of your self/others and everyday life have built up.
You’re pretty much done.
You don’t see the point in fighting anymore. You’re just dragging your feet along. People seem to think there’s a reason for this. Maybe there is, maybe there isn’t. They don’t know you. They don’t understand.
Your partner is ‘stuck’ with you.
You’re both in a rut. You mutually feel like shit. No one is causing the other any pain.